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Why Improve?

       Why Do I want to improve myself? Nobody is perfect, nor will I ever be. There is always more we can improve on. Which brings me to a few years ago, when I really looked at myself.

       Now I was not sitting in front of a mirror looking at my body. I was sitting down relaxing and think about my life. I started thinking about how not so great I was. I’m not horrible, I know, I’m not a murderer or anything along those lines. I just ment I was not being my best self; I knew I could be so much better.

       I was not happy with my life and how it was going, I felt lost and confused often. I was doing bad things to myself without even realizing I was doing it till late; For example dating the wrong type of guys.

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Do you want to improve yourself?

  • Is there more you would like to change about yourself?
  • Maybe you want to learn more?
  • Is there something that you know is a bad habit that you have always wanted to change but have trouble?
  • Are you happy with your life but would like to explore more into other experience of life?

       If these are some questions that resonate with you then I encourage you to subscribe to my website(which is over in my sidebar —->) because I am changing my life and learning more about life push myself further than I have ever before. Why not join me? I would love to hear more about you and what you want to work on; or even what part of life you have worked on and learned a great way to improve.

       I am not perfect I do not have all the answers. I want to learn, explore, make mistakes, and push my boundaries to improve myself and help others in the process.
       There are parts of my life that I did not like that I did. I would not change them because they made me who I am now and brought me to this point. Now even though I would not change them does not mean I can’t learn from them. There are many parts of my life that I want to improve on but I can’t tackle them all at once so I will start with a few, then more on from there. I have thought about where I would like to start.

 

Where are you going to start?

       I’m going to start with experiences, I don’t have many different experiences of life. I’ve always been an introvert. My mom use to call me out on being a hermit all the time growing up. I was someone who would spend my whole weekend reading books. Nothing else just read, eat, washroom, sleep. I could also be watching TV all day. I loved to watch other worlds, other lives, escape from my world into someone else’s.

       I used to be so hard on myself but as we grow up, I feel like everyone is at that stage. I realize that more now. No matter how many people told me then, I would not really understand till I got older and could see the bigger picture.

       There are just some things that take time. So needless to say because I stayed home lots I didn’t try new things and that has always been something I wish I did. I wish I did not care about how I looked or what others thought of me. I thought about changing this part of myself for few years and did a few little things but I made it my priority when my Aunt passed. I was done holding back, putting things off till later. I can’t tell you how many times I said to myself “I’ll do that once I look better, lose weight, become better at socializing, get better clothes, make more money, find the one I will marry” and so many more other excuses.

What is holding you back?

       Why wait?! If I want to do something I’m going to do it, try new things. I will try new experience and at the same time learn more about myself, improve myself. Have you been putting things off ? Start that ‘bucket list’ and do them!              

       Even those ‘smaller things’ like how I wanted to go to Rockwood Conservation Area so I did it. I took my family along and it was an amazing time. Why was I waiting? Have you ever wanted to go there? Go to Rockwood Conservation Area post and discover what you could see there and go! Then tell me all about it I would love to hear how it went for you.

       I’m improving my life, do you want to? I encourage you to take some time to yourself think about your life and really think about it. Where do you want your life to be in the future? Go for it! No more waiting. Life is not going to wait its going to keep going. Improve yourself for the better! Don’t be scared you are not alone!
You Are Not Alone!
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Love Always,
Cinthia Grace

6 thoughts on “Self Improvement

  1. Dear Cinthia,

    I am having exact same problem, just a bit different circumstances. I , just as you, am very new to blogging. Hope to keep in touch and good luck on your self improvement journey.

    1. Dear Aldina,
      I vary much appreciate your comment thank you!
      I would love to keep in touch if you have any questions don’t hesitate to ask, I’m always here to help. How long have you been blogging? I’m going to go check out your website.
      Talk to you soon!
      Love Always,
      Cinthia Grace

      1. So kind 🙂 Well, as it happens, today is my first day 🙂 You are seriously too kind. Visit when you have time, and hopefully we can build a wonderful blogging relation.

        Best Wishes,
        Aldina

        1. Dear Aldina,
          I visited your website, left a comment on your first post 🙂
          I know your probably over whelmed with how much you have to do to get everything ready on your website and just when you think you have everything you learn more and realize there is more you can change and make it better. I don’t think that will ever change . I hope you enjoy your first day ! Congratulations! Blogging is so wonderful and I love the challenge it brings with it too. Look forward to getting to know you more.
          Love Always,
          Cinthia Grace

  2. Such a great post! I really try to do all these things I always wanted to do too lately. It changes so much and makes you feel so much better about yourself afterwards. Sometimes we forget that we don’t just have to move with society’s flow but also stop and enjoy the little things in life.

    Much love,
    Nicki
    http://www.morning-elegance.com

    1. Dear Nicola,
      You make an excellent point! Not sticking to the flow of society. I find every time I mix things up I get more of those amazing moments where I find my self thinking “wow I can not believe this is happening I am so happy right now” the little moments can be so wonderful you almost don’t believe they are happening. But if your so focused on the everyday routine and going to the next thing on your list sometimes you miss the moments.
      I’m so glad you enjoyed reading this post! I look forward to reading yours. What are some of the things you have been doing that you always wanted to do?

      Love Always
      Cinthia Grace

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